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Has this ever happened to you? You start a program, project, activity or diet even with the best intentions tell you that this is the day you will start to reach your goal, then – Pow! Unforeseen shock, roadblock or barrier hits you that you did not see coming.
We never see these “accidents or obstacles” that come into our lives as something positive or useful. We look at those detours that take us from the path we have committed to stay. It happens to almost everyone at some point in our lives; setbacks, obstacles – whether career, financial or health-related, obstacles are unavoidable and we find ourselves out of sync with our goal. How do we stay on track? How do we overcome this inconvenient and untimely obstacles that appear suddenly and try to keep us from success in the goals we have set?
I have found that the first and most common obstacle that most people can identify with is that often, there is no clear definition of the target. This alone can cause you to sabotage the road to success before you even start. Without a clear goal, a destination to direct efforts and energy, you will find that you have created the first hurdle to keep you from success. Clarity of objectives is difficult to detect in a few short phrases, if you really have no idea what it is you want to achieve.
Now, before you continue reading, do this exercise; Think about what it is you want to achieve. What is the burning desire, the goals you want to achieve? Set your mind to face and answer this question. Take the time to write it out, then change, change, change so that you have it in your mind, and can made that clear in a few short sentences. This forces you to be concise and will remove much of the external “sidebar targets” that can draw you away from the main focus or goal.
Next, recognize that you may be prevented success. Are you prone to whitewash some negative habits and ‘it’s just as I am? “Be honest and realistic with yourself. Identify these habits so that you can watch and recognize them as you set out on a journey toward a goal life.
Most people, if you were to ask them would readily agree that fear and doubt are two of the main obstacles that keep them from pursuing their dreams, desires, or their goal. But we will focus on further and get specific.
to help you identify routine, here are some common obstacles that people face;
路 lack of focus
路 Unclear goals
路 do not know where start
路 procrastination
路 interference
路 lack of self-esteem
路 inability to let go
路 Hoarding (hanging throughout)
路 negative thoughts or negative self-talk
Maybe you can find routines listed above, or have different ones – only you know sure. But is it really true? Sometimes, it is advisable to seek outside assistance from people who truly care about the well-being and success. Ask them to be honest with you and help you identify negative habits, symptoms, symptoms that impede your ability to achieve your success. This can be difficult if you have a sense of pride, low self-esteem, or think you have all the answers. However, it is also important to make sure that you ask only those individuals who you trust implicitly to give you honest answers.
Once you have identified a list of habits or obstacles;
- Write them down then suggest at least three possible solutions to help you overcome them.
- Flip negative feature to find positive attributes or characteristics and begin to train yourself to think and act to implement and strengthen the positive habits.
- Finally, accept the fact that to achieve your goal properly and successfully will take time.
Overcoming obstacles that have been deeply etched in your lifestyle are not going to change overnight. Do not allow negative thoughts or negative self-talk to keep you from achieving your goal. Keep distilled clearly focused on overcoming the aforementioned obstacles will empower you to achieve your goals successfully. Keep in mind also that the barrier can sometimes be the very thing that rivets from your mediocrity, complacency, or “freezing zone” as I call it. When using obstacle tool to help you overcome negative symptoms, negative self-talk, or even self-sabotage no longer be your enemy to defeat you. This is a powerful weapon which you can utilize to disarm the obstacles that attempt to rob you of your success. You are a winner and you have everything within you to achieve your goal.
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Source by Monika Shaw